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Incomplete Marriages as on TV
Apr 6th, 2009 by Deepika
Jaane Kya Baat Hui

Jaane Kya Baat Hui

 

Some T.V. serials are so real to life. Now days the new T.V. serial “Jaane Kya Bat Hui” which is coming on channel COLOURS is becoming so popular and favorite to the people day by day. In this story, 90 percent of housewives have the same problem in this country. Women think that when their husbands step out of the house they straight away go to office and come back home which is not at all true. Men think Shaadi aisi hi hoti hai… and their romance ends after one year. If the husband cant spare time for them its because he is too busy - they just think that is how thinks are..

In our society, when a husbands female colleagues call, its not a big deal… but if a man calls to talk to the wife, the husband asks 20 questions. They just cant take it. No matter how much people claim to be progressive, their mentality hasn’t changed.

In India, people think that there is no difference between girl or boy and they feel their thinking is modarnise and give them own mental satisfaction, but one day they have to face the truth, At marriage time when the girl has to leave the house and parents say itself, now husbands house is your own house and you have to adjust and make them happy in the house, this is how the girls parents will gain respect in the society. One day the girl realizes that her parents were wrong, they should not have given the equal status to the girl and boy. ( Parents should make the boy and girl children realize that the girl has to go one day and their behaviour, attitude should be different, it will make the girl easy to adjust) .

But in some positions, when the husband is very dominating, strict, and beat her wife, or having an affair outside the house, the girl should not sit quietly and adjust, she should not loose her respect in the house, she should take strict action against him.

Some elders think as soon as the newly married couple will have issue, they will be busy in their family and will have love and effectionate towards them, but sometimes they are wrong, the couple feels that they are fussy and have burden on them. There life has b ecome dull.

 
Advise - Goods Tips for marriage

Before and just after marriage, husband and wife should understand their nature very well. So that they should not make the life hell of the children.

Before marriage all confusions should be cleared, so that they should not face any problem after marriage.

Women should get full respect, either she is working or not at home.



Kali Mirch Chicken
Apr 6th, 2009 by Deepika

Kali Mirch Chicken

Kali Mirch Chicken

 

 

About:

An amazing low calorie chicken recipe. Immidiate to cook and serve.

Ingredients:

8 medium pieces (about 800 grams) of chicken
2 tablespoon(s) peppercorns coarsely powdered
salt to taste
2 teaspoon(s) ginger paste
2 teaspoon(s) garlic paste
1 teaspoon(s) hot spice mix (garam masala) powder
3 tablespoons oil
2 tablespoons Sukhi Methi (Dried Fenugreek Leaves)
2 Lemons juice
4 tablespoons fresh coriander leaves finely chopped
4 Long strips slices of Onion

Directions:

1. Marinate the chicken pieces with the pepper, salt, half the ginger, garlic and garam masala powder (hot spice mix) for atleast 2 hours.

2. Heat half the oil in a heavy-bottomed pan. Shallow fry the marinated chicken on medium heat for about 4 minutes or till golden brown on both sides. Remove on to a paper towel and keep warm.

3. Add the remaining oil (or only required amount) to the pan and heat it.

4. Add the Onion. Saute briefly till the raw smell goes.

5. Add the chicken pieces, coriander leaves and the remaining garam masala powder (hot spice mix).

6. Stir in some hot water if required and mix well. Cover and cook on medium heat for about 12 minutes or till the chicken pieces are well cooked.

7. If the chicken is not yet cooked and the gravy looks dry, add some hot water little by little as required whilst stirring.

8. Put Dry Fenugreek (Methi) leaves. Cover and cook on low heat till done.

9. Serve hot garnished with coriander leaves and a sprinkling of freshly milled Pepper. Put Lemon juice to add more to its taste.

Mint Chutney
Apr 6th, 2009 by Deepika
Mint Chutney

Mint Chutney

 
About:

It is an amazing Chutney eaten with any Kabab.

Ingredients:

2 Bunch Fresh Coriander Leaves
1 bunch fresh mint leaves
1 medium onion
2 pinches salt
1 1/2 tablespoons apple cider vinegar or fresh lime juice
1/2 teaspoon black pepper
1 fresh green chilies
1 tomato
1/2 teaspoon ground cumin
5 Flakes of garlic

 

Directions:

Put all the above in the blender and blend till smooth.

Kaale Chane ke Kabab
Apr 6th, 2009 by Deepika
Kaale Chane ke Kabab

Kaale Chane ke Kabab

About:

This is a delicious snack to eat and serve. This can be also known as king of vegeterian snacks.

Ingredients:

1 cup kaala chana (chana should be boiled, water should be dried in chana)

1 teaspoon garlic paste

1 teaspoon ginger paste

Salt, pepper, green chilies according to taste

Half teaspoon ajinomoto (chinese salt)

2 teaspoon cornflour (for binding)

Some fresh chopped coriander

1 beaten egg for Binding (Optional, can be replaced with Bread Crumbs)

Directions:

1. Take a bowl. Mash the chanas.

2. Mix all the ingredients in the chanas.

3. Make small tikkis of the batter.

4. Take a non-stick pan. Spread some oil on it.

5. Put the tikkis on it.

6. Do up side down till golden brown.

Serve hot with mint chutney.



Life of Separated children
Apr 6th, 2009 by Deepika
Parents get seperated, so do children

Parents get seperated, so do children

 

Earlier ladies use to suffer a lot due to bad behavior of their husbands. They think this is their house either it is good or bad environment in the house.

 

The fact is that they have to depend on their husband for each and every thing. They have to live with their husband either they treat them as a servant.

 

But nowadays ladies are active and smart; they do not want to live with such type of husband. The basic difference is that earlier ladies’ parents use to say that husband house is your house; you have to live in that house either in good or bad ways. But now, parents are taking care of their daughters, they say if you do not want to live come back home. We are there to take care of you, but first option they will always say adjust in the house as you can but if you are fail to adjust in that house then come back home.

 

As the media has given a quotation, “parents have sent their daughters to live the life in the in-laws house. You have not sent your daughters to die in the in-laws house.” This is how the trend is changing day by day. Now the ladies want to live on their own stand and take care of their children itself. They do not want to depend either on parents or husband. Nowadays the separation of couples is increasing day by day. But this effect on the life of children. Husband and wife make their own lives busy in their work. That time they do not think what will happen to their children lives.

 

Children suffer a lot when the parents are separated and with the parents separation, some children are also separated. Children hearts are very soft. Day by day there comes a change in children’s life. Children lose their childhood and patience and they are forced to think about their parent’s separation. They do not have normal life, they are always frustrated.

 

Parents think that with separation they will give children good environment. They are wrong that way children always need both mother and father support. Parents realize this when they are settled in life separately and they are now late to think live together. But if they want they can live together if it is possible.

 

 

Tip: Whenever parents think about separation, before separation they should think about their children or they should make up their children’s mind that they are going to live separate so that they should not feel bad.

 

 

Homes are not made up with bricks they are made up with hearts.

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