Tears on the Dining Table

I saw you leaving your dining hall without taking dinner and tears were in your eyes.

Once myself and my friend were having lunch together. As she had her first bite she started crying and she left the dining hall.

I saw tears in her eyes and felt very bad. When i enquired from her she narrated me her story. She was divorced. She told me, she used to make much better food than what was made on dining table. Her husband always insulted her and never appreciated her what she has made. Many times she had to sleep empty stomach inspite of making such a delicious food.

Her elder son, mother- in- law also use to criticize her what she has made. She remembered her childhood when she was happy at that ti me. My mother use to make tasty food we always appreciated her, those were the days we were without any responsibilities but even after fulfilling the responsibilities my family never gave me good response. I do not understand I was unlucky to lose them or he was unlucky to lose me.

They did not understand my feeling, honesty, my love towards them. When she started crying again, I consoled her…

Fuel for Life

The fuel for life is happiness.

Happiness is the tonic which one gets from inner satisfaction.

Money, outings or any other fulfilment can not make you happy. Happiness is the inner satisfaction which one can not explain.

It is granted by God. Various type of health problems such as blood pressure, uric acid, sugar, g.g.p.t. etc. Can be cured by happines. Nowdays in the morning walk, people use to do laughing therapy to get relief of all tensions and they feel, healthy and happy. People do meditation to get rid pof all tensions. If one is happy his skin will glow with inner satisfaction. He will never need facial treatments or any type of glowing cream.

Hence happiness is the fuel for life…

Crime in Delhi

Crime in Delhi is increasing day by day.

Nowadays Delhi is not safe.

Daily crimes like Robbery, Chain snatching, Pick pocketing, Kidnapping, Harassment, Dowry etc.

It is not safe for children as more number of kidnapping is done in Delhi.

As Delhi is heart of India, it attracts terrorist.
Many terrorist activities are done in Delhi.
Many movies have been made to stop the crime, and to show people the real face of India, to help in stopping the crime, but no step has worked as yet.

Unemployment also comes in one of the crime in Delhi.

More educated people are getting vacancy, Less educated people are getting jobs due to their approaches with the boss. This is also the part of the crime.

Due to dowry, the innocent ladies are burnt, mentally disturbed, this is also the part of the crime.

Many leaders are supporting criminals for their own efforts.

This crime is in now all over India.

Jaane Kya Baat Hui

Some T.V. serials are so real to life. Now days the new T.V. serial “Jaane Kya Bat Hui” which is coming on channel COLOURS is becoming so popular and favorite to the people day by day. In this story, 90 percent of housewives have the same problem in this country. Women think that when their husbands step out of the house they straight away go to office and come back home which is not at all true. Men think Shaadi aisi hi hoti hai… and their romance ends after one year. If the husband cant spare time for them its because he is too busy - they just think that is how thinks are..

In our society, when a husbands female colleagues call, its not a big deal… but if a man calls to talk to the wife, the husband asks 20 questions. They just cant take it. No matter how much people claim to be progressive, their mentality hasn’t changed.

In India, people think that there is no difference between girl or boy and they feel their thinking is modarnise and give them own mental satisfaction, but one day they have to face the truth, At marriage time when the girl has to leave the house and parents say itself, now husbands house is your own house and you have to adjust and make them happy in the house, this is how the girls parents will gain respect in the society. One day the girl realizes that her parents were wrong, they should not have given the equal status to the girl and boy. ( Parents should make the boy and girl children realize that the girl has to go one day and their behaviour, attitude should be different, it will make the girl easy to adjust) .

But in some positions, when the husband is very dominating, strict, and beat her wife, or having an affair outside the house, the girl should not sit quietly and adjust, she should not loose her respect in the house, she should take strict action against him.

Some elders think as soon as the newly married couple will have issue, they will be busy in their family and will have love and effectionate towards them, but sometimes they are wrong, the couple feels that they are fussy and have burden on them. There life has b ecome dull.

 
Advise - Goods Tips for marriage

Before and just after marriage, husband and wife should understand their nature very well. So that they should not make the life hell of the children.

Before marriage all confusions should be cleared, so that they should not face any problem after marriage.

Women should get full respect, either she is working or not at home.