Crime in Delhi
Crime in Delhi is increasing day by day.
Nowadays Delhi is not safe.
Daily crimes like Robbery, Chain snatching, Pick pocketing, Kidnapping, Harassment, Dowry etc.
It is not safe for children as more number of kidnapping is done in Delhi.
As Delhi is heart of India, it attracts terrorist. Many terrorist activities are done in Delhi. Many movies have been made to stop the crime, and to show people the real face of India, to help in stopping the crime, but no step has worked as yet.
Unemployment also comes in one of the crime in Delhi.
More educated people are getting vacancy, Less educated people are getting jobs due to their approaches with the boss. This is also the part of the crime.
Due to dowry, the innocent ladies are burnt, mentally disturbed, this is also the part of the crime.
Many leaders are supporting criminals for their own efforts.
This crime is in now all over India.
TO GET RELIEF FROM STRESS
Do Meditation.
Learn Art of Living
When you feel depressed, watch comedy movies
Change your mind by watching movies.
As there is a quotation, don’t see that half glass is empty; see that the half glass is full.
There are different categories of people those who have stress————-house wife, business; I think that all people are suffering from stress with their personal problems.
One should get inspired by the successful people, and make himself busy to get relief from all tensions.
One should help the poor.
One should work hard to reach its goal.
Don’t be upset you should have positive thinking
My personal experience there is no end of life; one should struggle till end to achieve its goal.
Don’t think that I am less than anyone.
Just ignore your tensions. .
Life is full of difficulties, if you will think positive it will be easy.
Jaane Kya Baat Hui
Some T.V. serials are so real to life. Now days the new T.V. serial “Jaane Kya Bat Hui” which is coming on channel COLOURS is becoming so popular and favorite to the people day by day. In this story, 90 percent of housewives have the same problem in this country. Women think that when their husbands step out of the house they straight away go to office and come back home which is not at all true. Men think Shaadi aisi hi hoti hai… and their romance ends after one year. If the husband cant spare time for them its because he is too busy – they just think that is how thinks are..
In our society, when a husbands female colleagues call, its not a big deal… but if a man calls to talk to the wife, the husband asks 20 questions. They just cant take it. No matter how much people claim to be progressive, their mentality hasn’t changed.
In India, people think that there is no difference between girl or boy and they feel their thinking is modarnise and give them own mental satisfaction, but one day they have to face the truth, At marriage time when the girl has to leave the house and parents say itself, now husbands house is your own house and you have to adjust and make them happy in the house, this is how the girls parents will gain respect in the society. One day the girl realizes that her parents were wrong, they should not have given the equal status to the girl and boy. ( Parents should make the boy and girl children realize that the girl has to go one day and their behaviour, attitude should be different, it will make the girl easy to adjust) .
But in some positions, when the husband is very dominating, strict, and beat her wife, or having an affair outside the house, the girl should not sit quietly and adjust, she should not loose her respect in the house, she should take strict action against him.
Some elders think as soon as the newly married couple will have issue, they will be busy in their family and will have love and effectionate towards them, but sometimes they are wrong, the couple feels that they are fussy and have burden on them. There life has b ecome dull.
Advise – Goods Tips for marriage
Before and just after marriage, husband and wife should understand their nature very well. So that they should not make the life hell of the children.
Before marriage all confusions should be cleared, so that they should not face any problem after marriage.
Women should get full respect, either she is working or not at home.
Parents get seperated, so do children
Earlier ladies use to suffer a lot due to bad behavior of their husbands. They think this is their house either it is good or bad environment in the house.
The fact is that they have to depend on their husband for each and every thing. They have to live with their husband either they treat them as a servant.
But nowadays ladies are active and smart; they do not want to live with such type of husband. The basic difference is that earlier ladies’ parents use to say that husband house is your house; you have to live in that house either in good or bad ways. But now, parents are taking care of their daughters, they say if you do not want to live come back home. We are there to take care of you, but first option they will always say adjust in the house as you can but if you are fail to adjust in that house then come back home.
As the media has given a quotation, “parents have sent their daughters to live the life in the in-laws house. You have not sent your daughters to die in the in-laws house.” This is how the trend is changing day by day. Now the ladies want to live on their own stand and take care of their children itself. They do not want to depend either on parents or husband. Nowadays the separation of couples is increasing day by day. But this effect on the life of children. Husband and wife make their own lives busy in their work. That time they do not think what will happen to their children lives.
Children suffer a lot when the parents are separated and with the parents separation, some children are also separated. Children hearts are very soft. Day by day there comes a change in children’s life. Children lose their childhood and patience and they are forced to think about their parent’s separation. They do not have normal life, they are always frustrated.
Parents think that with separation they will give children good environment. They are wrong that way children always need both mother and father support. Parents realize this when they are settled in life separately and they are now late to think live together. But if they want they can live together if it is possible.
Tip: Whenever parents think about separation, before separation they should think about their children or they should make up their children’s mind that they are going to live separate so that they should not feel bad.
Homes are not made up with bricks they are made up with hearts.
According to me the girl should be working and mature enough to think about marriage proposal.
She should be physically and mentally mature for marriage.
Before marriage she should know about the background and the nature of the bridegroom.
The girl should know that she is not getting adjusted only with the bridegroom, but she has to adjust with all the family members.
The servants can play a important role in marriage proposals, they can report the whole home environment to the opposite party.
She has to go to other person’s house. She has to go through all the customs of the new house. As she has to adjust herself, the family members will not adjust with her.
As the people say the girl has three births:
One, when she is born in her parents house,
Second, when she is married,
Third, when she gives birth to child.
The girls should be graduate and they should to earn for their own needs. Young ladies will come from bad to good environment and brighten their future. One more reality in our society is that the daughter-in-law has to give birth to a baby boy. If she will not give birth to the baby boy the husband and his family will not accept and will not give her respect in the house. They will say her she is unlucky and she is not fit for this family, until she does not give successor to the family. Some family members force the husband to do second marriage if he is not having baby boy from the first wife. The women third birth is succesful only if she gives birth to a baby boy. This is how some people differentiate between girl and a boy.
